December updates

hello!

Just a quick update...it's been ages since i wrote anything on this blog....and so many things have happened.. spent the entire month of december holiday-ing at home....went to genting with michele,lifong, MY and joe...it was very fun guys!!!!i had a great time....i felt that the trip was very 'fruitful' becoz ahem* and ahem* got together not even 2 weeks after the trip....=) haha... btw, it was very nice to catch up with friends after so long...=)

oh yea, and dec was quite a busy month for me coz my bro and my yee shou got married....3 wedding dinners, one in malacca, one in singapore and one in KL...so our whole family were kinda bz and 'stressed' the entire month...haha, actually, planning for a wedding is very 'mafan'....they took almost more than a year to plan and prepare....so many things to do....which got me thinking, maybe next time if i ever get married, maybe i should marry while on a holiday?? more convenient, less hassle?? well, i dont know..just a random thought.haha...

oh yea, and another thing...i recently became single again....yeap....i'm coping...at least i m 'trying'....and i m having troubles moving on...=( well, dowan to say too much..

oh yea, i wanna share a very funny story with u guys ....i'll write it in the next post...

i love it when it rains

I love it when it rains...

it feels so soothing and calm...

it feels so peaceful...

the raindrops give a very repetitive and relaxing sound...

the rain makes everything more romantic..

i love it when it rains..

It's May!!

Oops...i cant believe it, its May already....how quick time passes...and in 6 days, I'll be done with my 2nd year of uni....so fast...



The month of May reminds me of many things...



and 1st of May is Labor Day...and it's my bro's fiance's birthday....i remember hor....maybe i try calling her 2moro...but they going back Malaysia....so see how lar....



Labor day is suppose to be a day for all workers to rest...and tomorrow is definitely NOT a rest day for me....coz next week i have to critical final exams...does that mean that uni students work harder than working people?? haha..jk...i'll be having 3 months of holidays...yippee...

starting to feel a bit homesick already...it's always like that...I'm like anticipating my return home....can't wait..in another week....=)



in a really random note, May remains me of the band MayDay....wu yue tian...=)



u know, i read this non fiction bio book called 'Supernatural' before, they claim that people born in May are smarter naturally.....they claim that babies conceived in August/September are smarter...so if u are conceived then, after 9 months and 10 days, u should be born in the month of may...they say it's due to some natural forces or seasonal weather or something like that....



in another unrelated note, i feel that way too many chinese girls are called 'May' already...or ah mei, or mei mei...or some other kind of variation....too many already...nice name, but way too common...at least that's what i feel....if i ever have a daughter, i would never call her May...or June....another popular name...or April or January...



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Tidak membalas budi = Ungrateful??

well well well...our newly appointed DPM has only been in office for 1 week but he has already screwed up with his 'loose' mouth...in an interview with a Malay Language magazine, he says that he does not understand why the chinese voters did not vote in favor of BN and he says that the chinese 'tidak membalas budi'....welll well well....so over the past week, there has been an ongoing debate over what is the meaning of 'membalas budi'?? does it mean that ethnic chinese MALAYSIANS are ungrateful?? i myself am not very sure of the meaning of the words...

but really, these politians need to stop being so '2 faced' u know...
pls dont go saying one thing to a group of people and saying something different to another group of people...why??? coz there;s such thing called the 'media', and information flows very quickly and efficiently nowadays...

honestly, i dont even care if membalas budi means 'ungrateful' or 'unappreciative'..coz it doesnt really make a difference to me....

all i hope is that these politicians stop all this useless bickering and unethical racist comments and start working....pls dont deviate from the main issues like the economy and corruption...whether the DPM's statement was twisted or not is a totally different issue, and all this distraction is certainly not helping Malaysia at all...

my take on this issue:

as a malaysian...yes yes, i always identify myself as malaysian first, followed by my ethnic group, i'm chinese, i m not really offended by what the DPM said...no use being angry or irritated over such a small issue right? BUT i'm sure it will affect my perception and probably many other fellow malaysians towards the current federal government.... all these tiny miny events will add up towards my vote in the next general election...if i decide to vote that is..=)

Oh well...

26/3- Thursday

Sometimes, when u want something so desperately. u might not get it in the end...

however, u might end up getting stuff that u dont really want in the first place, that is just as good or something u have never thought of before...so i suggest we all stop trying...

sometimes, when u go looking for something specific that u want, u will never be able to find it...

however, u may stumble upon something u want when u r not looking for it...

oh well, life's a bitch..

Thank god,I have gas!!

23/3- Monday

Recently, I have been watching this show called the 'ellen degeneres show' a lot, like a few hours a day.....it's a talk show by ellen...and she's really really funny...

ellen

She's really really funny...and she makes all her viewers very happy too...

Here are some of her jokes that make lots of sense that i really really like:

1)"Sometimes when I am driving I get so angry at inconsiderate drivers that I want to scream at them. But then I remember how insignificant that is, and I thank God that I have a car and my health and gas. That was phrased wrong - normally you wouldn't say, thank God I have gas. "

2. "People always ask me, 'Were you funny as a child?' Well, no, I was an accountant. "

3. "I’m a godmother, that’s a great thing to be, a godmother. She calls me god for short, that’s cute, I taught her that."

4. "Normal is getting dressed in clothes that you buy for work and driving through traffic in a car that you are still paying for - in order to get to the job you need to pay for the clothes and the car, and the house you leave vacant all day so you can afford to live in it."

5. "In the beginning there was nothing. God said, “Let there be light!” And there was light. There was still nothing, but you could see it a whole lot better."

6. "My grandmother started walking five miles a day when she was sixty. She's ninety-seven now, and we don't know where the hell she is. "

7. "Procrastination isn't the problem, it's the solution. So procrastinate now, don't put it off. "

Very cute right? omg...i love her sense of humour...=)

oh, btw, she's gay and she's very cool...

on a more serious tone...i must say, my personal perception towards homosexuality has changed a lot ever since like when i was in secondary school...when i was younger, i get very very uncomfortable when i see gay couples holding hands in the shopping mall and stuff...but nowadays, i realise that i dont really mind about it anymore...well, ever since coming back from canada i guess...well, gays are very common in our society nowadays...and they are not very different from us...they are human also, and they have their right to love whoever they wanna love...and it's not our business to judge them...in fact, it's bloody rude to judge other ppl..and besides, i actually think that most gays and lesbians are very attractive/good looking...haha..strange but it;s true in my opinion...but i know some ppl still believe that homosexuality is wrong..especially in asia....bla bla bla...

oh yea, another gay actor i like:

Neil Patrick Harris

He acted in harold and kumar & how i met your mother...a really good actor and very very funny as well..=)

p/s: btw, my exam last saturday was kinda ok....i didnt have enough time to finish it...but it wasn't disastrous though...

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